Al-Adab Al-Mufrad: Social Behaviour

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Chapter: Relating good things between people

Umm Kulthum, the daughter of 'Uqba ibn Abi Mu'ayt, reported that she heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Someone who makes peace between people by saying something good or relates something good is not a liar."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 385
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 1
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 385
180

Chapter: A liar is not behaving correctly

'Abdullah reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "You must be truthful. Truthfulness leads to dutifulness and dutifulness leads to the Garden. A man continues to tell the truth until he is written as a siddiq with Allah. Beware of lying. Lying leads to deviance and deviance leads to the Fire. A man continues to lie until he is written as a liar with Allah."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 386
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 2
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 386
'Abdullah said, "Lying is not correct, neither in seriousness nor in jest. None of you should promise his child something and then not give it to him."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 387
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 3
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 387
181

Chapter: Someone who is patient when people injure him

Ibn 'Umar reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The believer who mixes with people and endures their injury is better than the person who does not mix with people nor endure their injury."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 388
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 4
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 388
182

Chapter: Enduring injury

Abu Musa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one - nothing - is more patient in enduring an injury which he hears than Allah Almighty. They claim that He has a son, and yet He still cures them and provides for them."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 389
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 5
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 389
'Abdullah said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, swore an oath like one of the oaths that people swear and a man of the Ansar said, 'By Allah, it is not an oath by which the Face of Allah Almighty is desired." I said, 'I will tell the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace. I went to him while he was with his Companions and I spoke to him in confidence. It clearly affected him greatly, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and his face changed colour so that I wished that I had not told him. Then he said, 'Musa was injured with greater than that and he endured it.'"
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 390
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 6
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 390
183

Chapter: Improving a state of friendship

Abu'd-Darda' reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I tell you a degree better than prayer, fasting and sadaqa?" "Yes," they replied. He went to say, Improving a state of friendship. Causing discord in a state of friendship is what shaves things away."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 391
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 7
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 391
Regarding the ayat:
"Fear Allah and put things right between you," (8:1), Ibn 'Abbas said, "This is an injunction from Allah to the believers to fear Allah and to put things right between them."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 392
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 8
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 392
184

Chapter: When you lie to a man and he believes you

Sufyan ibn Usayd al-Hadrami reported that he heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "It is great treachery to tell something to your brother so that he believes you when you are lying to him."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 393
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 9
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 393
185

Chapter: Do not make a promise to your brother and then break it

Ibn 'Abbas reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not dispute with your brother. Do not make fun of him. Do not make a promise to him and then break it."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 394
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 10
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 394
186

Chapter: Attacking Lineage

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are two courses that my Community will not abandon:
wailing and attacking a person's lineage."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 395
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 11
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 395
187

Chapter: A man's love for his people

A woman called Fusayla said that she heard her father say, "I asked, 'Messenger of Allah, is it part of disobedience for a man to help his people in something which is unjust?' 'Yes,' he replied."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 396
In-book reference : Book 21, Hadith 12
English translation : Book 21, Hadith 396