Al-Adab Al-Mufrad: Looking after girls

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Chapter: Someone who looks after two or one daughters

'Uqba ibn 'Amir reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "If someone has three daughters and is patient with them and clothes them from his wealth, they will be a shield against the Fire for him."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 76
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 1
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 76
Ibn 'Abbas reported that he heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "There is no Muslim who has two daughters and takes good care of them but that he will enter the Garden."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 77
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 2
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 77
Jabir ibn 'Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Anyone who has three daughters and provides for them, clothes them and shows mercy to them will definitely enter the Garden." A man from the people said, "And two daughters, Messenger of Allah?" He said, "And two."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 78
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 3
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 78
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Chapter: Someone who looks after three sisters

Abu Sa'id al-Khudri said that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "No one has three daughters or three sisters and is good to them but that he will enter the Garden."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 79
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 4
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 79
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Chapter: The excellence of someone who looks after his daughter after she has been sent back home

Musa ibn 'Ali reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Shall I show you the greatest sadaqa (or one of the greatest forms of sadaqa)?" He replied, "Yes, indeed, Messenger of Allah!" He went on, "To provide for your daughter when she is returned to you and you are her sole source of provision."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 80
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 5
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 80
Suraqa ibn Ju'shum reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said the like of previous hadith.
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 81
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 6
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 81
Al-Miqdam ibn Ma'dikarib heard the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "What you feed yourself is sadaqa for you. What you feed your child is sadaqa for you. What you feed your wife is sadaqa is for you. What you feed your servant is sadaqa for you."
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 82
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 7
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 82
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Chapter: Disliking for someone to hope for the death of daughters

It is reported that there was a man who had daughters who was with Ibn 'Umar when he wished that his daughters were dead. Ibn 'Umar became angry and said, "While you are providing for them!"
Reference : Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 83
In-book reference : Book 4, Hadith 8
English translation : Book 4, Hadith 83